This person may not match your perfectness, but he/she can think of a conversation between you and "him/her". Your view of the perfect match will be more clear through the conversation. You are used to talk in the same tone as your parents, for it makes the decision upon whom you love. 這五句~很...亂~ 非常難翻譯~以後請注意
The person is different from your ideal lover,and he/she also imagine the content of the conversation. Your lover's image becomes more apparent. You get used to the way the parents say. It decides whom you will love with.